Advent Love

From a sermon preached at Calvary Church Pacific Palisades on December 24, 2023.

Merry Christmas! Thank you for joining us this Christmas Eve afternoon. You may not have noticed that we have a short Advent Season this year. Advent is a four-Sunday anticipatory journey leading up to the traditional Christmas Eve (or Day) Service. But this year the fourth Sunday of Advent IS today (Christmas Eve), so we are combining the fourth Sunday of Advent with Christmas Eve and this afternoon we will be considering Advent Love.

There is a very popular and free Bible app called YouVersion that has been downloaded more than 700 million times in the U.S. and around the world. In 2023 the longing for hope is reflected in a list of the top 10 verses that users searched for. The No. 1 verse for the third year running was, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God,” — Isaiah 41:10. Other popular searches included more familiar verses like, “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.” –John 3:16. And “For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.’”  –Jeremiah 29:11

This is a verse that had a strong effect on me when I was 20 years old. I had an encounter with God a few months after reading this verse. A friend who became a Jesus follower gave me a used Bible. I took it home and sat it on the dining room table wondering where I should start, so I just opened the book and looked down and Jer 29:11 was highlighted, so I read it and thought, “Well, there’s two things I don’t have yet – a future and a hope. I should probably keep looking into this Christian thing…”

Hope, as most of you know, is a traditional Advent theme and one that we addressed three weeks ago in our Advent series, Good News, Great Joy. We have looked at the Advent themes of HOPE, PEACE, and JOY. By way of reminder, here’s a (very) succinct overview…

Advent HOPE is a life-shaping certainty that our ultimate future is found in the eternal love and glory of God. A holy and practiced HOPE can overwhelm whatever grief we may be experiencing.

Advent PEACE is not merely the absence of conflict or fear but an unshakeable confidence and trust in God’s wise and good control over our lives.

Advent JOY is delight and gladness in God and His salvation for the sheer beauty and worth of who God is. The counterfeit of JOY is mere happiness.

And for the next few minutes, we will be considering Advent Love.

Why these themes?

Because of the incarnation of Jesus, the Christ we now have an awakened HOPE that gives way to an abiding PEACE, which blossoms into a fragrant JOY that causes God’s sacrificial LOVE to flourish.

I have a non-traditional advent verse for us to consider today… “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”  –1 John 3:1a (NIV) [notice the exclamation points…] Just a bit of context…John was the sole remaining survivor of the original 12 apostles who had intimate and eyewitness friendships with Jesus — and John is likely between 85-90 years old as he’s writing this letter.

John wrote the Gospel of John, and he also wrote first, second, and third John. The Gospel of John was written that we might believe. The Letters of John were written that we might know – as in having assurance. Assurance that the Christian faith is true. Assurance of our own salvation. Assurance of God’s love for us, which I’d like to focus on today.

I’d like to draw out two aspects of this verse as we consider God’s Advent LOVE…

  1. The FOCUS of God’s great love.
  2. John’s EXPERIENCE of God’s great love.

The FOCUS will be fairly familiar to many of us, but considering John’s EXPERIENCE may offer a fresh perspective for some of us. With that said, here’s the big idea for us to reflect on this Christmas Eve:

There is a difference between knowing ABOUT God and truly KNOWING God.

Let’s look at these two aspects one at a time…

  1. The FOCUS of God’s great love.

The first thing we need to notice in 1 John 3:1a is that “The Father has lavished great love upon us.” [I love that word lavish…]

The Greek word for great in this verse literally means “from what country?” If we were to contemporize the phrase it would mean that this love is “unworldly,” or, out of this world. (used 7x’s throughout the NT). This same word is used in Lk 1:29 when the angel Gabriel appeared to Mary and told her she was “favored, and the Lord was with her.” She was “pondering this ‘unworldly’ salutation.” This word is also used in Mat 8:27 when Jesus spoke and calmed the ragging sea and the disciples looked at each other in the boat and basically said, “Who is this guy?!?”

The Greek word for love in 1 Jn 3:1 is agape. Simply stated, AGAPE LOVE is a sacrificial serving that reaches out to people who don’t deserve it. (“For God so loved the world…”) C. S. Lewis wrote a book entitled The Four Loves in which he unpacks four different Greek words for love. Lewis uses the word charity to describe agape love. Lewis writes that charitable love allows us “to love what is not naturally loveable; lepers, criminals, enemies, morons, the sulky, the superior, and the sneering.”[1]

What does it mean that we are “called children of God”? It’s not just an expression, there is a theological order of salvation. First, there is an outward call that people hear with the ears of faith, which leads to regeneration where God sovereignly imparts spiritual life into the hearers, which leads to conversion where we confess our sin and selfishness and then willingly surrender to the call of God, which then leads to justification where we are instantaneously and legally forgiven of all of our sins, which then leads to our adoption wherein God makes us members of His family. And this adoption includes becoming “partakers of the divine nature” (1 Pet 1:3-4.) And with this gift of divine nature, we then begin the lifelong journey of sanctification (or transformation).

Think of God as Judge and Jury. He declares us “not guilty.” Then He gets up and comes around the bench, takes off His robe, and adopts you into His family. One theologian says that “God gives [us] His own life and love in adoption.”[2]

This is the kind of love you and I are invited into…Advent and celebrating Christmas gives us space to step back and reorient our lives to both receive God’s love as well as to share God’s love.

2. John’s EXPERIENCE of God’s great love.

The old KJV translates this verse as, “Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons [lit children] of God.” Most English translations do not do justice to the Greek rendition. In the NIV translation, at least have the exclamation points at the end of the first two sentences. A literal translation might be: “Look at the sort of love the Father has given us!” [3]

So, what’s happening here? As John is writing about assurance and thinking about what he’s about to write, he gets caught up in worship and adoration. And we, the readers, experience John experiencing God. Grammatically, these verses can be described as parenthetical, meaning they could have been or should have been placed in parenthesis.

This sort of outburst of spontaneous worship and exaltation happens (at least) two other times in the NT. Paul, in writing to the Ephesians in chapter 1:3-14 there is one run-on sentence of 202 words where we readers experience Paul experiencing God. And the same thing happens in Peter’s doxology in 1 Pet 1:3-9. In each instance, we experience each author experiencing God.

Here’s what’s happening…In 1 John 3:1-3, John goes from knowing to beholding. John goes from understanding to standing under – and he’s not just writing about it – he’s demonstrating it to us. It’s like the truth of Scripture becoming radioactive and gushing out of our head and traveling the 18 inches from our head to our heart and then flooding through our soul. Still, another way to think about this is like lightning striking a lightning rod and all of that energy coursing through the rod. Has that happened to you? Have you had an encounter with God where you experienced His love and delight?

This is what I want for every person in this room (or who watches this online). That, by God’s grace and mercy our knowledge ABOUT God would be converted to a personal and experiential knowledge OF God.

Think of a father dropping his son off to college and as the son walks his father to the car, the father stops and grabs his son kisses him, looks him in the eyes, and says: “I love you son and there is NOTHING I wouldn’t do for you to help you become the man that God has called you to be – including die for you.” And the son weeps. Why? It’s not new information. The son already knew his father loved him. But the information becomes new, and he experiences his father’s love in a new and profound way.[4]

When the truth about God, or the truth about our identity as a child of God becomes real to us – it flows out into every other part of our lives.

My longing to understand God’s love and grace exploded into a whole new reality when I realized that Hosea REALLY, REALLY, REALLY loved Gomer.

D.L. Moody a 19th-century American evangelist and pastor was walking up Wall Street in New York City…and amid the bustle and hurry of that city…the power of God fell upon him as he walked…and he had to hurry off to the house of a friend and ask that he might have a room by himself. In that room, he stayed alone for hours [as] the Holy Spirit moved upon him filling his soul with such joy that he had to ask God to withhold His hand, lest he die on the spot from…joy. [5] I want this for you and for me.

As we close and prepare to go on our merry way, I’d like to repeat a verse that I shared earlier. It’s one of the most searched verses from the YouVersion app… “For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.’”  –Jeremiah 29:11

That’s a pretty encouraging verse, right? And then let’s look at Jeremiah 29:12-13… “Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.”

God has plans for you and me. And He is inviting us to come to Him and pray. Notice that He says that we will find Him (or experience Him) when we search for Him with ALL of our hearts.

It’s not that we need to be all heart all the time. But there is a wholeheartedness that God is looking and waiting for. Have you made your whole heart available to God?

What if your relationship to God is not based on your spiritual resume, but based on the spiritual resume of Jesus, who lived a life of perfect obedience because you and I couldn’t? What if you and I are radically loved because of what Jesus has done? The astonishing and life-changing message of Christmas is that God didn’t just declare his love; he demonstrated it. God didn’t just tell us what love is; He showed it to us, and God is willing and wanting to show up in our lives to reveal Himself and His love to us.

Our cultural symbol for love is a heart because the emphasis is on how we feel. But the Bible’s symbol for love is a cross—a demonstrated and sacrificial agape love that reaches out to people who don’t deserve it. My prayer for you, for me, and for Calvary Church this Christmas is that there would be a refreshed wholeheartedness that would position us for a fresh encounter with the living and loving God.


[1] The CS Lewis Signature Classics, Harper One 2017: 828.

[2] Kyle Strobel. Formed for the Glory of God, IVP 2013: 43.

[3] Colin Kruse. The Letters of John (Pillar New Testament Commentary Series). 1 John 3:1-3.

[4] Adapted from Tim Keller, which is adapted from Thomas Goodwin (1600-1680), an English Puritan theologian and preacher.

[5] R.A. Torrey. Why God Used D.L. Moody, 1923: 51-55.

A Devoted Community

This is a portion of a sermon preached at Calvary Church Pacific Palisades on Oct 22, 2023, where I am currently serving as the Intentional Interim Pastor..

We are six weeks into our Family of God series and the purpose of this series is to explore four essentials and four expressions that define what it means to be a part of Calvary Church.

  1. The 4 essentials that we have looked at are the Church, the Bible, the Trinity, and the Gospel.
  2. The 4 expressions are Worship, Community, Mission, and Formation.

Today we will be considering a passage that will be very familiar to many of us – Acts 2:42-47… “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43 Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. 44 All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45 They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. 46 Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.”

Today we will spend most of our time looking at v. 42. It would be my contention that v. 42 contains the basic ingredients of A Devoted (Biblical) Community and that vs. 43-47 are the fruit or outgrowth of our whole hearted devotion.

Before we get into our text for today, I think it’s important that as we consider the concept of A Devoted Community, that we see (or remember) that the God we worship is a God who has eternally existed in community. The Father, the Son, and Holy Spirit have dwelled in perfect unity, love, and joy for all eternity. And this triune God created this world and humanity to invite us into A Devoted Community.

Both C.S. Lewis and Tim Keller liken the Trinitarian community to a Divine Dance. In his classic book Mere Christianity Lewis refers to the Trinity this way, “God is not a static thing…but a dynamic, pulsating activity, a life, almost…a kind of dance.”[1] Tim Keller picks up on Lewis’ metaphor of a dance and elaborates on this concept in his book The Reason for God where he devotes a whole chapter (14) to what he calls The Dance of God.[2]

First off, it is essential for us to see that A Devoted Community is not just a NT concept but that it’s rooted in the Divine Dance of eternity—which we have been invited into (not as gods, which would be the Mormon heresy, but as family – sons and daughters, brothers and sisters).

With that said, here’s the big idea for today: Biblical community is our shared devotion to our common life in Jesus Christ, which seeks to reflect the love of God to a broken world.

Let’s turn our attention to Acts 2:42: They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.

For the remainder of our time let’s take a (hopefully) refreshed look at the five overlapping concepts in this verse: Devoted, the apostle’s teaching, fellowship, the breaking of bread, and prayer. We’ll spend the most time looking at the apostle’s teaching and fellowship, but let’s get started…

Devoted. This word is a fairly accurate transliteration of the Greek word (“continued steadfastly”). Nevertheless, the verb “devoted” (προσκαρτερέω) has several shades of meaning in the original language. It’s worth taking a moment to consider the aggregate power of the word.

  1. To adhere to
  2. To persevere
  3. To show courage
  4. To be in constant readiness

That’s a bit of what this word is conveying. Their allegiance to this church was not a convenience, it was a commitment. It was a matter of ultimate concern. This is where we need to stop and ask the question, if you’re a Jesus follower, what is the current state of your devotion? And if you’re not a believer, you should know what you’re being invited into.

Apostle’s Teaching. There is a 1-word summary statement for the whole of the apostle’s teaching and that word is gospel. What do I mean when I say the gospel is the 1-word summary statement?

I mean that the gospel is not simply the entry point into the Christian life but it is also the foundation and the power that shapes ALL we do as active and intentional followers of Jesus Christ, both in our daily lives and in our experience as A Devoted Community of believers.

The gospel is not only the fire that ignites the Christian life but also the fuel that keeps us going and growing each day. The gospel is the gloriously great announcement of what God has done when Jesus condescended to leave the Trinitarian communal perfection and majesty of heaven and come down into our brokenness to live the perfectly obedient life that we could not.

What this gospel gift provides for the repentant believer…

  1. A free and perfect righteousness
  2. Unrestricted access to a perfectly holy God (availability for intimacy)
  3. The empowering gift of the Holy Spirit
  4. The free gift of eternal life
  5. A coming renewed creation that will be free from decay, disasters, disease, evil, sin, and death

The gospel is not what God requires. The gospel is what God provides! The gospel is not good advice – it’s good news! (You are fully known and fully loved).

Martin Luther famously said we need to preach the gospel to ourselves every day. Why? Because our souls are like musical instruments. During any given day or week our souls can drift out of tune with the glorious gospel. This is one of the most important reasons to make church a priority – so that we can remember and be refreshed by the gospel.

Fellowship. The Greek word is koinonia and signifies a deep and honest sharing of ourselves. It is a shared life with others who have a passion for Jesus, the Son of God. Koinonia is embracing honesty, humility, transparency, and authenticity in a world that is more comfortable with an “image-is-everything” mentality. My own definition is to break off a piece of yourself (the real you) and share it, asking, when you encounter the real me, in both my beauty and my brokenness, will you still love me, accept me, and forgive me?

For us to engage in biblical koinonia we must be passionate about creating safe spaces for people to share their woundedness, brokenness, fears, doubts, and holy longings. Calvary Communities are the best place for this to occur.

Larry Crabb a Christian psychologist and author wrote a book entitled Real Church in which he said, “A real church aims toward spiritual community where souls connect, where shame weakens, where sin surfaces, where failure meets grace, where irritations soften, where holy desire grows.”[3] Would you like to be a part of a church like that? I would…

In order to affirm the need for safe spaces, I’d like to offer a few prescriptive thoughts about what a safe and hospitable space that can foster biblical koinonia looks like…

A safe and hospitable space allows grace and space for mystery, doubt, and respectful theological interaction. There’s a maxim that both denominations and churches adhere to which states, “In the essentials, we must have unity; in the non-essentials, we must have liberty; and in all things, we must have charity.”[4] Our essentials are listed above. It is also commonly held that the essentials of the faith include the doctrines related to salvation.

So, a safe and hospitable space has boundaries at the edges with enough structure and guidance to provide security, stability, and support as well as enough spaciousness and flexibility to provide freedom for growth and change. A safe and hospitable space understands that we don’t change each other. We provide people with space and timely “exhortation” (cheerleading; more than confrontation) and God does the changing.

A safe and hospitable space is also created when we view evangelism as a conversation rather than an event. 1 Peter 3:15 “…always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.”

And finally, I’d like to suggest that we begin to adopt what’s called a “Post Worship Hospitality Radar” (PWHR).  A fine-tuned PWHR picks up all new or distressed people within a radius of 10 or 20 feet, at the conclusion of a service. If we all looked for someone, this place could be electrified with post worship gospel hospitality.

Breaking of Bread. This phrase almost certainly has a double meaning. In this first century church, smaller groups met in homes and shared meals together. It was an opportunity for both broken and redeemed people to find connection and belonging. Breaking bread together also indicates they celebrated the Lord’s Supper together regularly. The Lord’s Supper is a celebration of the gospel – a regular remembering of what Jesus Christ had accomplished on the cross and in the resurrection.

It’s thought that this practice has become more formal over the years. Certainly, we don’t need to wait for the Lord’s Supper – or Communion, (which comes from the same root word as community), to be celebrated at a Sunday service. You can celebrate it in your Calvary Community, or you can also celebrate it with friends, or your spouse, and even with your kids. It’s a great way to both remember and teach your kids the gospel.

Prayers. In the Greek, the definite article occurs before the word “prayer.” So, the literal transliteration is actually, “the prayers” (ESV).

Luke, the author of Acts, is likely referring to specific prayers and likely specific times of prayer as well. Most of the new converts were well-versed in the Jewish Scriptures and they were also well-versed in stopping what they were doing several times a day to pray. I think we can also assume that the prayer Jesus taught the disciples to pray was also making its way into “the prayers.” In any case, being devoted to prayer is about fixing or realigning our attention on the Person of Jesus Christ. Some years ago, Eugene Peterson (MSG paraphrase) wrote a book entitled Answering God[5] and in it, he makes a strong case that we only pray well if we are immersed in Scripture. He said we learn our prayer vocabulary the way children learn their vocabulary—by getting immersed in language and then speaking it back. 

As I mentioned earlier v. 42 is WHAT they did and vs. 43-47 is the FRUIT of what they did.

V. 43: There was a strong sense of awe. The Greek word for “awe” is the same word we get our English word phobia from, so there was a definite holy attentiveness to God working in and through this newly forming devoted community of believers.

V. 43: Wonders and signs were taking place. In other words, the supernatural life and power of God was being poured out regularly in their midst.

Vs. 44-47:  We see the activity of biblical community in action, including…

  1. Mutual identification in the gospel Equality and unity within social classes and ethnicitiesEnthusiastic joyPraise and adorationFavor among the unconverted (“You don’t have to advertise a fire!  –Leonard Ravenhill)
  2. V. 47: Salvations

Epistle to Diognetus—a letter to a friend explaining why Christianity was growing so quickly. It has been dated between 130-200 AD… “Christians busy themselves on earth, but their citizenship is in heaven. They live in their own native lands, but they live as aliens. For every foreign country is to them as their native land, and every native land is as their foreign country. They marry and have children, but they do not kill unwanted babies. They share their table with everyone, but they don’t share their bed with everyone. They love everyone but are persecuted by all. They are poor and make many rich. They are short of everything and yet have plenty of everything. They are treated outrageously but behave respectfully. They are mocked and blessed in return.  When they do good, they are attacked. When they are attacked, they rejoice as if being given new life.”[6]

This is how authentic Christian community affected the world in the first couple of hundred years of our existence…

Fear and doubt are contagious. And by God’s empowering grace, so is faith. It is essential that we surround ourselves with people who will help bolster our trust and growing faith in Christ by being devoted to Christian community.


[1] Mere Christianity: 136.

[2] The Reason for God: 214-221.

[3] Real Church: 152.

[4] This statement is often attributed to Augustine, yet it (apparently) cannot be found in any Augustinian text. Upon further research, the quotation has been found to be a common tenet quoted as authoritative in several Christian traditions, expressed in various ways, and attributed to various authors. A 17th-century date is provided by Philip Schaff in The History of the Christian Church (Eerdmans Repr 1965, Vol. 7: 650-653), which traces the authorship to Rupertus Meldenius a relatively unknown theologian and author of a “remarkable” tract in which the sentence first occurs.

[5] HarperOne, Reprint edition 1991.

[6] Epistle to Diognetus. Dated between 130-200 A.D. The anonymous author of this Epistle gives himself the title Mathetes, which means “a learner, pupil, or a disciple.”

What Good Friday Accomplished

The gospels tell the what of the crucifixion while the epistles help us to understand the why.

One of the most subtly graphic passages in the epistles is Paul’s declaration to the Corinthians…

“He made Him who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.”  –2 Corinthians 5:21

This doesn’t mean that God made Jesus sinful, it means that on the cross the Father treated Jesus the way sinners deserve. Jesus sweating blood in the Garden of Gethsemane was a mere foretaste of the coming rejection. One commentator wrote, “Jesus came to be with the Father for an interlude before His betrayal, but found hell rather than heaven opened before Him…”[1]

On the cross, Jesus endured the FULL WEIGHT of the sins of humanity. Think about it, every past, present, and future sin of every person who would ever live was beginning to smother the soul of Jesus. Someone has said that the physical suffering that Jesus endured was like a flea bite compared to the emotional and spiritual suffering of bearing the sins of humanity.

What we encounter in the gospels is that Jesus didn’t exude the peace of God on the cross. If we look closely, we see that He actually lost His peace while He was dying on the cross. He cried out in agony saying, “My God, My God, why have you forsaken Me?”  and then a few minutes later, in His final moment, “And Jesus uttered a loud cry and breathed His last” (Mark 15:34, 37).

To paraphrase what happened as He passed from life to death, we must acknowledge that Jesus died screaming. It was torturous, excruciating, and violent, fueled by unfathomable pain.

Here’s what may help us to better understand what happened on Good Friday, Jesus relinquished all of His peace so we could receive and enjoy eternal peace. The essence of the gospel is that God, out of unfathomable pain and immeasurable love became one of us and accomplished for us what we could not accomplish on our own. The Christian life is not about what we could or should do to earn God’s favor and acceptance, it’s about what God accomplished for us. This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it (Psalm 118:24).

A Bible Project Video to further prepare for today: https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/gospel-luke-4/


[1] Bill Lane. The Gospel According to Mark. Eerdmans 1974: 573.

We Are Desperate for God’s Intervention

The Bible is the only book in existence that requires a growing intimacy with the Author to fully comprehend the contents. I’ll explain…

I became a Jesus follower during college (I was right in the middle of the Jesus Revolution movie). As a new believer, I couldn’t believe my good fortune when I spotted a Bible as Literature Course being offered. I registered as quickly as I could. I thought it would be a great opportunity to get course credit for getting to know my Bible better! However, the first day of class was very confusing for me. It quickly became apparent that our professor knew the Bible very, very well—but she did not believe a single word of it. Ouch! I found that there were other Christians in the class, and over the course of the semester, she relished each and every opportunity to belittle and push back on anything and everything the Christian students would say. For our professor, the Bible was mythological nonsense. Looking back, I can see that apart from the regenerating presence and power of the Holy Spirit, we are completely incapable of encountering the Author of the Bible and discerning spiritual reality.